I have so many thoughts in my head right now but they are stuck. Or maybe it’s more like a traffic jam…competing with each other to find the fastest detour…the fastest way to escape. Whoa, that got deep quick.
I sit here on this beautiful day-the sun is shining through my kitchen. I am consuming a nourishing bowl of food, listening to some chill music and for the first time in months I feel content.
You see for the past month or two I have not felt like my normal, energetic, happy, go-getting self. I’ve felt like staying in bed, eating like crap, drinking way too much coffee in the hopes of gaining a titch of energy, and overall like a freaking slug. I’ve been a dinosaur (as discovered in a beautiful bible study full of beautiful humans with so much to learn from). What I mean by that is I’ve been stomping around the house-literally roaring at everything and everyone-sucking all the joy out of everything and focusing on the negative. Maybe I was using this mindset as an excuse to be lazy? No matter how hard I tried I could not snap out of it.
I finally went to the doctors and got my blood checked. Super thankful for the gal I got in with-she listened to me. She heard I’m an avid trail runner and immediately decided we needed to run a tick panel with my blood. Weird I thought but ok. I mean I am in the woods or outside a lot and my dog did have Lymes show up in her blood sample last summer so cool, run the test!
Well I got the results back on Tuesday and lo and behold! A tick borne illness was present in my blood sample as well as low ferritin levels. I’m pretty sure when the nurse told me this I let out a hugeeeee exhale…because that’s how I’ve felt. Like I’ve been holding my breath for weeks, just staying close enough to the surface to get enough air to keep me alive but not truly living. This result showed me something was actually going on and with a little help I could fix myself. What a freaking relief. Maybe it’s all in my head or maybe the medicine is actually making me feel better (who wants to live with parasites inside them-EWE) but the last two days I have started feeling a bit more like myself.
I did a strength workout yesterday and didn’t want to quit halfway through. My runs are getting faster which is giving me confidence in that sport again. I want to spend time with my fam and I want to talk to people again. I’ve started a gratitude journal which is helping me see the beauty of this life and it’s making me smile.
I think this was a moment for me to slow down, take inventory of my life, and prepare my mind and body for some big things coming up. I feel some huge life changes on the horizon and I think this was my sign that if I can get through a period of self doubt, exhaustion, and whatever else this was-I can do anything. I have this tattooed on my shoulder “anyone can do anything” and I need to remind myself of these words often.
Here’s to finding yourself in a phase of darkness. Here’s to your loved ones checking in on you, lifting you up, and cheering you on.
In my 34th year of life I am realizing people truly can care about you. I’ve never been one to have a solid group of friends so I think it’s hard for me to think people actually like me (which is really sad). Past experiences have formed this thought in my mind that I’m never good enough but with the right people in my corner I’m learning this is a load of trash. We are meant to be around people and I’ve got some pretty incredible humans in my life.
So after all that babbling here are some things I’m grateful for this week:
-sledding with my fam and the laughter we had crashing into the thorn bushes
-this photo
-SUN
-A random Thursday off
-clean toilets 😂
-Zevia Ginger Root Beer
-garbanzo beans-who would have thought this would be my new fave food.
-croz in a box
-homemade pizza night-craving more nights like this
-a positive visit to the vet for Ruthie girl 💕
-Benson Boone-his songs are my jams right now
-the rich roll podcast-some crazy yet incredibly inspiring stories on there
-meal prepping and including my kids. Croz helped me make muffins and it was such fun
-Epic snack boards for movie night!
-focusing on self care-good food, time in the sauna, electrolytes, chiropractic care, and massage. I treated myself to a massage last Saturday after a really hard week and it was EVERYTHING. My shoulders are effed. She didn’t even make it to my legs because there was so much crunching going on in my upper body. I’ve broken myself but am in a stage of repair and am ready to come back stronger 💙
Wishing you a lovely weekend full of all things that matter to you.
Thanks for stopping by and putting up with my jumbled thoughts.
XO
-Hales